Male Amateur Videos by Pat and Sam -
The Inside Story
Our original business was selling individual solo scenes of a few of our friends on various auction sites – back in freer, simpler times. Since those days, changes in how adult vendors verify age and restrictions regarding where adult materials can be sold gently nudged us in this direction.
But the paradigm change was largely due to what many of our early customers told us: “You guys have a real flair for picking the hotties! Why don’t you start producing your own titles?”
So, we did!
It has certainly not been the easiest thing to accomplish – at a casual glance, pointing a camera at naked guys would seem to be the perfect gig. But there are always a lot of things going on behind the scenes: Every guy has a different level of comfort, a different personality, a unique outlook on life based on his past experiences.
And every time you blink, the Feds make another attempt at turning adult entertainment into rocket science – something even they haven’t been too successful with!
This is why we chose to follow an unscripted format – each guy’s high points (and foibles!) really shine through when there’s no set of rules, no dialog to memorize, no preconceived notion of what should happen once the cameras are rolling. With so many “generic” twinks, studs, circuit boys and pornstars in the market, seeing cute guys how they really are is a refreshing treat.
Over the years, we’ve updated our equipment many times and we’ve gained a lot of useful experience. Some of our very early titles may not have the technical quality of our newest releases, but they still have the same heat.
We still stick with our original formula of simply filming whatever happens and then we pass that on to our customers for their perusal. We’ve found this allows you to know the guys more intimately, and to watch them over a period of time so you can keep up with them and what they are doing.
But, from time to time we like to try new things. So, don’t be surprised if you occasionally see things that break out of our mold. Because each guy is different, you never know where things may lead.
One of the many things that occurred with the passage of time was the invention of Pat and Sam Online, our 100% original amateur male membership website. You’ll see most of the guys found in our movie titles there, and you’ll see a lot of ”one offs” that don’t make it into our movies.
Pat and Sam: Has It Really Been That Many Years?
It was 1981 and I had just turned 22. Pat was about to turn 27. It was a different time then and there weren’t the inhibitions there are now. We discovered a mutual passion for cute guys early in our relationship. I know I saw the joy of desire in his eyes, and he must have seen it in mine. We decided right off the bat that we didn’t want to deny each other the pleasure that life has to offer. It was then we set up our “open” relationship.
Many have questioned the sanity of this over the years. There have been some who admire us, interested in we how do it and how it all works. There have been others who pooh-pooh the whole concept: “You aren’t lovers, you’re just best friends.”
Like there’s a rule that you can’t be both.
It’s worked for us for all these years, but we don’t recommend it for everyone. Our success is based primarily in the fact that we’re in love. Always have been. We both realized that early, and it’s never left. And there are those who say we’re co-dependent.
Duh! Like Mom and Dad aren’t. Like Ward and June (or Lucy and Desi) weren’t. But unlike Mom and Dad, we’re two males – taboo! Therefore we felt free to set up our relationship in a form that suited us. So we continued our enjoyment of other guys even though we started binding ourselves together.
Our reasoning was (and still is) that we can fuck whomever we want, yet remain married to each other because we love each other. Some don’t understand this because they aren’t able to separate lust from sex from love. I don’t think they’re wrong, because it’s how they view the world and how they feel. We just don’t use their views or opinion as a model for our lives.
We’ve always felt that sex is a kind of friendship. It’s like eating dinner together, just a little more physical. I know not everyone shares that view, and of course we don’t invite everyone to chow down with us, as it were. But, with those who are like-minded, we’re happy to get down and get funky.
No matter what form curiousity has taken over the years, there’s something everyone asks about. It’s the big, green word: Jealousy!
‘Don’t you guys get jealous? What about that?’
The answer is a big ‘Yes!’ Especially in the early years, when we were still learning about ourselves, about each other, and about the rest of the world. But it doesn’t come up much any more.
After 23 years I feel secure. The same rules we made way back when still apply, and we both live by them. It’s a situation which inspires me to be honest and open with Pat. And it’s easy, because after all this time I count on the same from him. I’m much more apt to thump myself on the head and wonder how I missed out on something, instead of feeling that bitter rage we call jealousy.
I’ve always felt that I’m the best soulmate for Pat. There is really only thing I’ve ever wanted to do: Make him happy. And I think I’m the best at it. Could someone else make him even happier? Perhaps. And what if he met someone who did – could I let him go?
Two decades ago, it would have been easier. We have so much more invested in each other emotionally and intellectually than we did on our second anniversary. After nearly a quarter of a century of being best friends and lovers at the same time, our trust and love has its own momentum. My concern wouldn’t be centered on what effect it would have on me. I’d be more interested in how it would affect Pat. I would need assurance that it was the right thing for him.
I really don’t think it will ever happen, but the possibility that it could has made me strive to be the proverbial Number One in his life. And it’s kept me from being jealous. Really loving someone means you rejoice when they have fun instead of feeling unreasonably envious that it wasn’t you.
The Mincing Minor: Fact or Fiction?
Colorado, which loosely means “colored red,” was first claimed by Spain in the 16th century and then by France in the 18th century. Spain traced its claim to the southwestern US to Coronado’s expedition of 1540, which explored much of New Mexico and Arizona. Most likely, he didn’t reach present day Colorado – a tiny fact that didn’t keep Spain from using the trip to claim the Rio Grande and Colorado river basins.
The “true” settlers of Colorado arrived in the mid 1800′s, making the state the last to be occupied by permanent settlers. The first comers were attracted by the discovery of gold and other precious metals. Less than successful in their grab at the brass ring, they began to work the land and the ranges for their livelihood.
Not a walk in the park…
The Territory of Colorado was recognized on the 28th of February, 1861. The First Territorial Assembly outlined seventeen counties in September 1861. They were Arapahoe, Boulder, Clear Creek, Costilla, Douglas, El Paso, Fremont, Gilpin, Conejos, Huerfano, Jefferson, Lake, Larimer, Park, Pueblo, Summit and Weld.
Food for thought… The 1860 census showed a population of about 33,000 men and 1,500 women. This was when Colorado was still considered to be a part of Kansas. But it might as well have been on the moon – that’s still a 20:1 ratio!
The Mincing Miner: Perhaps a figment of our imagination, but maybe not. When you think about how harsh life was in the west and what short supply true friendship was in, it’s easy to imagine how powerful relationships could develop on those lonely cold nights in the myriad mining towns of the 1800′s!
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